5 types of behavior you should not do to your boyfriend as a girl in a relationship
Everyone wants a happy relationship and marriage. Especially girls, they want to establish a single family. In a relationship, I would like to share 5 types of behavior that a girl should not do towards her boyfriend.
1. He tries to solve all his problems
Whether it’s his work or financial issues, you shouldn’t always try to help him out. It’s good to ask them to solve it themselves. Otherwise, he sees himself as useless and he won’t be happy and he won’t have the confidence to take responsibility for his future. Remember you are a girl. He is not someone who can solve all problems.
2. I always give him expensive gifts
It’s even worse if your boyfriend’s family is a normal family and you’re rich. You shouldn’t do that. A gift is not worth much. It only applies to those who appreciate it. You should give him something equal in value or not much different from the gift he gave. Otherwise, he makes himself inferior.
3. Always comforting him when he cries
The fact that he always remembers you when he’s sad has nothing to do with him falling in love with you. You can be just a good friend to see when he is sad. When he is distressed and upset, you should advise him on how to solve the problem, not interfere.
4. I told you
Saying “I just told you didn’t” implies that you are better than him. Some boys don’t like to feel that way.
5. Abandoning your personal life and work
This happens after getting married, leaving work, and not contacting friends. Marriage is not for this. It is good to take care of family life. But you don’t have to do that. You two should definitely consult.